11. Give up on fearful thoughts.
An illusion of the mind created by the soul, fear comes from within the mind. It does not exist. Simply by putting this at the back of your mind, your physical actions will take shape
“The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself.” Franklin D. Roosevelt
12. Give up your excuses
They serve no use or importance in your life, so get rid of them totally. We severally reduce our chance as a result of many excuses given, so much that we at times get hooked up with lies through all types of excuses that are not tenable.
13. Give up on your past.
Always be active in your present. And forget the past. Though, hard to do, not even when it seems much better than the present, and the future looks so frightening, yet consider this present as all you have and will ever have. Don’t forget that this same past was once your ignored present, so stop to deceive yourself and utilise your present for the sake of the future to be better than the past. Make your future to be bright by preparing yourself. After all, life is not a destination, but a journey.
14. Give up attachment.
A state beyond words is what you deserve. Giving up attachment is one so hard for many to hold, despite the fact that it is very realistic. However, constant practice is what is required. Immediately you are able to detach yourself from all things, you become so kind, peaceful, serene, and tolerant. You will in no time get to a place where everything will be clear to you, even without trying. Note here that you not to give up your love for these things Love is different from attachment. While attachment is somehow working with fear, love is kind, pure, and selfless.
15. Give up living your life to the expectation of others
Countless number of people live other people’s lives. Some people chose to live their lives according to the dictates or expectations of their families, friends, co-workers, etc, thereby refusing to hearken to the call of their inner voice. Many times, these people lose their focus in life and get astray living up to other people’s expectations. In trying to live up to the expectations of others, they gradually forget what they need, want, gives them joy and happiness and eventually they forget who they really are. You have but just one only life to live! Live and own this your present life and avoid losing focus through living the expectations of other people. This your life is your present, live it right.
