1. Thinking to be right always
Several of us always see ourselves as being right on everything at all times, to the extent of not minding to lose either that long lasting relationship, or creating a great negative impact on the both parties. It is not that a good thing to always feel justified on every issue. Each time such unexpected action to decide who is right or wrong arises, be calm and soliloquise on Wayne Dyer’s question: “Would I rather be right or would I rather be kind?” Check on the effect of your answer. Control your self esteem.
2. Give up being in charge
Be willing to always avoid being in charge of everything situations, events, people, etc that come your way. Allow your loved ones, co-workers, or just anyone that crosses your path to be. Do not take control over anything and anyone just let them remain as they are then experience how much better you feel.
“By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond winning.” Lao Tzu
3. Give up finding/putting blames
Never shift blames on anyone for your achievements or misdeeds. Begin to take responsibilities for your actions, and quit letting your powers waste.
4. Give up inferiority complex
Always think positively to yourself. Stop killing yourself with negative thoughts. Proclaim good things and go about with the spirit of I can achieve it. Encourage your soul and make it to alyas think in the positive and progressive directions that you desire.
“The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly. Used wrongly, however, it becomes very destructive.” Eckhart Tolle
5. Give up your lowering your imaginations
Think big, soar high in the sky and avoid being stagnant as a result of your believe towards possibilities and impossibilities, what you can or cannot do. Fly like an eagle that you are.
“A belief is not an idea held by the mind, it is an idea that holds the mind” Elly Roselle